By Kendra Coleman
Over the years, we have seen clients pursue partnerships or relationships that are not good for business, or even for them personally! And yet, they persist in trying. That is until they don't …
The case that follows is about a time when we, at Miller Consultants, suffered the same challenges, and what we learned as a result. We hope that our lessons learned will help you as you engage in new relationships with other businesses or groups.
Case:
In 2009 Networks Company decided it would focus on growing its business in a key emerging market. Both Networks Company and Miller Consultants had an interest in this market and specialized expertise that could yield great results. This seemed a great opportunity to proactively partner. We had worked with Networks Company for a few years providing their clients with leadership development and change management services to support their technical services. Our work together was successful, and we developed positive individual relationships with their staff. At the business level, however, challenges based on differences in values ensued. Time and time again, we disagreed about the best way to engage with our clients. After several projects together, Miller Consultants advocated for greater collaboration and earlier involvement in projects. For various reasons, we were not able to accomplish this proactive partnership with Networks Company. Instead, we allowed the pace and amount of work to take precedent and we continued to try to address issues reactively. We never really sat down to 1) get clear on our own requirements, or 2) discuss and negotiate our mutual needs and interests with Networks Company.
Through 2008, Miller Consultants had mostly joined Networks Company in its primary market. They got the leads and pursued the technical work with clients. They brought us in when the client requested change management or other organizational development services. Because Networks Company “owned” the client, we decided, we would follow their protocols. Per their own preferred consulting style, Networks Company regarded Miller Consultants more as functional experts rather than collaborative partners.
In 2009, we made a concerted effort to bring Networks Company into our markets with the intent that we would be equal and collaborative partners delivering a high-value, combined service to clients. We assumed that they would follow our protocols and trust our knowledge of how to engage our clients, as we had done with them. At the early stages, Miller Consultants initiated conversations to clarify roles and approaches to the work. While both companies acknowledged our separate areas of expertise, we did not reach agreement about how we would work together to leverage these separate skills. Instead, we got clear on the outcome (to win work focused in this new market) and the immediate next steps which were focused on how to win the work with the clients. Perhaps most detrimental of all, we did not fully acknowledge as a team our lessons learned from our past working relationship – what supported us to do good work individually and together, and what got in the way of doing good work
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Q: Did you see Sustainability as a natural fit for your company?
Kathy says it’s simple. “We have always focused on the long-term relationship with our customers rather than pushing products or services and engaging in short-term transactions. Kathy became particularly interested in the issues pertaining to the energy and environmental aspects of sustainability while working with one of Miller Consultants’ partner companies, MWH Engineering. MWH Engineering was building a new business in the area of strategic resource management. This business involved helping companies improve their energy and water efficiencies. This work uncovered some ‘softer’ needs such as how to get employees engaged in finding ways to increase energy and water efficiency. Frequently the work required getting employees to collaborate across unfamiliar boundaries within the company. The groups had differing perspectives and definitions of what needed to be addressed. Kathy says that she realized companies needed help in enabling the collaboration and engagement necessary to move these initiatives forward.
Finally the corporate world is beginning to come to grips with what sustainability means to their companies and to their survival. While varying definitions of 'sustainability' abound, more and more companies are embracing values related to sustainability and are defining actions to support the values. Some are merely looking for ways to comply with new regulations. Others are looking for better ways to manage their electrical and water resources, and reducing their carbon footprint. Still others are taking much broader approaches and looking at how the company does business with its shareholders, suppliers, customers and employees. No matter how narrow or broad a company defines its efforts, success will require activities to enable change within the company.
Many times those who are assisting with change enablement to support organizational initiatives use models of change management. However, change enablement for supporting sustainability efforts, whether broad or narrow, will differ substantially from the change management for most other corporate initiatives. Sustainability initiatives are much more complex than almost any other corporate initiative that I have observed or assisted with in my 30 years of consulting. Thus our traditional models for change are unlikely to be sufficient.
Certainly some parts of our traditional models will apply. However I do believe that fundamentally, our approach to change enablement for sustainability requires a new paradigm:
We are beginning to build this new paradigm for change that companies are seeking as they take on the hard work of looking at corporate sustainability. Our work is truly cut out for us!
As leaders of our companies, all of us have our share of challenges these days. Lately I've been reflecting on what it takes to show strong leadership when times are tough. Over the past few months I have observed closely leaders who are effective and those who aren't. I believe that the differentiating factor is leadership presence. This somewhat elusive characteristic is more than mere charisma. It stems from deep self-knowledge that comes from reflection. It includes the ability to be in the moment, reach out, express yourself and connect with others. In their book entitled Leadership Presence, Kathy Lubar and Belle Linda Halpern define it as the following:
The concept is very simple. The embodiment of it is tough - especially in tough times! In my opinion, the real test of leadership is in how leaders act during hard times. My observation is that many are able to exude "presence" when times are good, but revert to defensive, self-protective if not narcissistic behaviors when times are tough.
So what are the behaviors that leaders can strive to exhibit during hard times? In my opinion, the leader who listens a greater percentage of the time than he or she talks demonstrates "being present not pretentious." The leader who communicates informally and invites people at every level of the organization to share their thoughts and concerns is "reaching out not looking down. " A leader who clearly communicates the good news and the bad with compassion and acknowledgment of his or her own feelings is "being expressive not impressive." The leader who takes time to assess, reflect and acknowledge his or her own strengths, weaknesses, hopes and fears and spends an equal amount of time considering how he or she can understand and respect the needs of others is "being self-knowing not self-absorbed."
While these qualities and behaviors are always important, during tough times they are pivotal to the morale as well as the productivity of the organization.
In that last blog I described an organization which seemed to resist (deny) any organizational health problems in their current culture. Just as I was about to post that blog I learned that this organization did, in fact, decide to accept the data in our assessment and to begin addressing the problems in their present culture wherever issues exist. We are now in the process of working with them to fulfill this need. Soon thereafter - - perhaps simultaneously - - we will begin the second phase, which is preparing them for a future culture of enormous growth. This company and its senior management are to be commended for their willingness to look at what no company ever really wants to see: Unhealthy situations in their corporate culture. - - And not only did they take off their rose-colored glasses for a clear, realistic look, they have now begun to address those issues. Wouldn’t it be great if all organizations could follow their lead?
Why do organizations spend so much time and energy discrediting hard messages? We have just completed a culture assessment for an organization which is growing rapidly and needs to meet the challenge of change head-on. The growth they are experiencing requires them to move from a small family-like structure and culture to one that encourages innovation - - one that is ready and able to keep up with a quickly growing customer base exhibiting new demands and desires. Our plan was to work with them to assess the gap (if any) between their current culture and the future culture which inevitably will continue to show the additional demands and desires of their ever-expanding customer base.
Our first step was to assess the current culture. Prior to beginning, upper level managers had convinced us the current culture was healthy - - that employees were engaged in their work, respected one another, were familiar with and embraced the goals of the organization, communicated freely between departments, and operated with true "team spirit." The focus of our assessment was to be an analysis of the "big picture" of the changes needed to support their rapid growth, not an assessment of the health of the organization in its present stage.
However, when we analyzed the data from the assessment, we were almost as surprised as their managers were. The assessment indicated that senior leadership had a very different perception of the present culture from that of the rank and file employee! In fact, the data suggested that the company had some rather serious "organizational health problems" in certain areas. Some remedial action in those areas would be necessary in order to attain an accurate baseline of the company as a healthy organization. The remedies, of course, would precede any changes needed to support their growth plans.
As consultants, we aren’t exactly naïve. We didn't expect this to be good news to senior leaders. But we did believe they would want to address some of the problematic issues in the current culture just as soon as possible. We suggested that the assessment results could be - - should be - - viewed as valuable information, allowing them to address these issues before attempting change efforts which would be doomed by what they didn’t know. To our surprise, they simply defended against the information! They attempted to explain away the problems as "data collection errors."
Sad but true, this type of reaction is typical. Very often leaders would rather "not know," even though their success can be imperiled by lack of information about their vulnerable spots. When they do receive hard-to-hear feedback, they often ignore it until the problem becomes so great it can no longer be dismissed. And then, unfortunately, it may be too late.
So what can consultants do to "soften the blow" of hard messages? I’m still trying to figure that out! But I do know one thing for sure: Effective leadership means choosing to put aside defense mechanisms and accepting the information in hard messages for what it is - - a valuable piece of the picture. If they can do that, how much more likely they are to succeed!